‘A guy I’m seeing is in contact with his ex - he says it’s nothing but I’m anxious’
In Lalalaletmeexplain's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems.
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About two weeks ago we agreed that we aren’t seeing anyone else, we go out on dates, but we haven’t labelled it as a relationship yet. Things seemed to be going well until I noticed that his ex keeps popping up on his phone. I tried to ignore it and put it to the back of my mind, but I found myself in floods of tears driving home. This week he was not being forthcoming about what he was doing but after pushing him for answers he told me he was going out running with her. I was gutted.
Let’s break down the things that have caused you to wobble – the first time around he was blowing hot and cold, and your gut told you that there were other women in his life. The second time around you remained anxious, and his lack of communication made this worse, ultimately resulting in you feeling neglected on your birthday. The third time around he has been having hidden communication with his ex and is now spending regular time with her and minimising how you feel about it.
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