Dear Amy: I am moving in with my boyfriend in a few months. He is everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner, and I’m excited to move into the small one-bedroom condo, which he owns.
YOU: “I don’t feel comfortable here.”
And now — you’ve said yes to moving in. Further confirmation for him that you’re probably on the same page. This should not be delivered as an ultimatum, but as you stating a simple truth: “I’m not willing to live the way you live. It’s waaaaay too messy and dirty for me.”
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