DEAR ABBY: A friend recently moved back to his home state. Because he was anxious about leaving, I told him he could stay with me anytime he wanted. I was trying to be nice and calm his nerves, but he has taken me literally and thinks he can come stay whenever he likes.
When he visits, we rarely spend time together outside of my house. He’s off with other friends for dining, boating, etc. In addition, he leaves piles of clothes lying around in my living area, along with used tissues and face masks, which seems disrespectful.
DEAR TOO NICE: Do not blame your friend for taking advantage of the generous offer you made before he moved. And no rule of etiquette dictates that you should be included on his outings with others if he’s an invited guest. I do think you are overdue in having a talk with him about the clothes, used face masks and tissues “lying around.”
I’ve noticed, however, that over the last year my son has steadily put on weight and is having some trouble with his complexion. I’m concerned that he has acquired the habit of overindulging himself and that, over time, he will continue gaining weight and drinking too much. His girlfriend looks great -- she manages her weight very well.
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