My mother never bothered to have a relationship with her when she was alive.
But now, on every birthday and anniversary of her passing, Mom posts on Facebook how much she misses her and how “close” they were.
Her friends all send messages of love addressed to Mom, with no mention of my husband and me. It hurts and upsets us, but I don’t know how -- or if -- I should talk with her about it. Any words of advice?Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your daughter. It is possible now that she is gone, your mother realizes how many opportunities she missed to have a close relationship with her grandchild, and she posts those messages out of guilt.
She may also do it for attention, which is sad. You can’t stop her from posting what she wants on her page, but you can spare yourself the upset you experience when you see it if you stay away from Facebook on these occasions.I am a closeted lesbian in my teens and really scared about coming out. I recently moved to an area of the country that is full of racists, sexists and homophobes. Most of my friends are really religious.
I have only come out to a few people, but I know my family will accept me no matter what. I would really like to feel comfortable around my friends as my true self, but I’m not sure how I can do that.Because you are sure your parents will be supportive and accepting, come out to them. However, unless you consider coming out in your community to be SAFE, you shouldn’t do it. You CAN find friends on the internet.
Ireland Latest News, Ireland Headlines
Similar News:You can also read news stories similar to this one that we have collected from other news sources.
Dear Abby: Should I tell close friends that I’d like us to be a ‘throuple’?We often socialize, and when we do there is definite chemistry between the three of us.
Read more »
Dear Abby: My coworker stole money meant for disabled peopleDear Abby advises someone who suspects a coworker has stolen money from a charitable organization and a man whose girlfriend suffers from depression.
Read more »
Dear Abby: What to do if award-winner doesn’t follow the rulesThis person hasn’t used the $5,000 for its intended purpose.
Read more »
Dear Abby: My mom is using my daughter’s death for social media cloutDear Abby advises a grieving mom, a scared lesbian teen, and someone trying to visit a friend in the hospital.
Read more »
Dear Abby: I’m scared to let my new friends know who I really amI’m a closeted lesbian, and their anti-gay rhetoric makes me uncomfortable.
Read more »
Why 'Dance Moms' Star Abby Lee Miller Sold Her Pennsylvania StudioThe move is a 'bittersweet' one for Miller, who announced the news to Instagram on Wednesday.
Read more »