I hope you can help with the very frustrating situation I’ve found myself in.
I’ve always thought of my husband as my best friend. Infact, I pretty much gave up everything – social life, family, job – to relocate to a very quiet rural community with him seven years ago.
He says our beliefs don’t align any more and he feels I resent him for moving us out of the city. He’s so arrogant! I hate thinking about the fact that I’ve gone along with all his plans and never thought about my own, agreeing to follow him to the middle of nowhere and not to have kids.Coleen says It sounds like The Great Escape to me, love. You could have spent another 10 years watching him play the ukulele in the pub but at 38 you have your whole life ahead of you .
You’ve learned this valuable lesson at 38. It took me until I was in my 50s to start considering what I wanted.
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