Carolyn Hax: Is there a way out of always being the holiday cook for the in-laws?
When my wife's relatives host, they always assume I will cook their meal. As a good guest, I take the path of least resistance and cook for them. In my family, whoever is hosting cooks the big meal while their guests have fun and catch up.
But what irks me most is that I feel disrespected and taken for granted. Sometimes I'd like to be a guest on vacation with everyone else instead of stressing in the kitchen. First rule of diner ordering: Abandon “should.” When you order what you think you’re supposed to want, you won’t want what you get.
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