The Great Debate: Can You Ever Be Friends With An Ex? The Great Debate: Can You Ever Be Friends With An Ex?
Pic: Pexels/ Tirachard KumtanomGrowing up, I had family friends I’d consider my aunt and uncle. They were a couple for as long as I’d known them, until one day, they split up. Aged eight or so, I was horrified that my plans of being their flower girl was scuppered.
Feelings can be confusing, and affection and care can often be misconstrued for romantic feelings. I think it’s okay to realise that and become friends instead. Once two people are clear about why they broke up, and feel mutual about where they stand, it can work. It might not happen right away, but in time, after a split, if someone is meant to be in your life you should embrace it, even if it’s not in the way you planned. After all I’ve seen living proof of just how well it can work.We’ve all been there. The big breakup. The sudden split. The unceremonious dumping you didn’t see coming. The apologies, the tears, the request to “stay friends” regardless. We were so close for so long. Why wouldn’t we? Here’s why.
And isn’t that always the way? The person who dumps another wants to remain pals, to keep in touch, to stay in the loop even though they’ve potentially upended someone’s life.
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